b'WHAT IF MY CHILDREN DO NOT WANT TO VISIT THEIR OTHER PARENT?Thiswilldependonthechildrensagesandif there are court orders about spending time with that parent. If the children refuse to spend time withtheotherparent,youshouldencourage them to go if it is safe to do so. These issues can be quite complex, and should be discussed with one of our experienced family lawyers.WHAT IF COURT ORDERS ARE NOT BEING FOLLOWED?Ifthecourtordersstatethatthechildrenare to spend time with you, and the other parent isrefusingtoabidebytheorders,ornot encouragingthechildrenasbesttheycan, you may be able to seek the courts intervention. Gettingurgentandexperiencedlegaladvice is crucial.WHAT IF THE ARRANGEMENTS ARE NOT WORKING?Over time, things change and new arrangements may need to be made. It is best to discuss these matters with the other parent. We can assist you in negotiating and drafting a new agreement. Iftherearefinalcourtordersthathavebeen made,theremustbeasignificantchangein circumstancestohavetheorderschanged, unless it is mutually agreed between the parties.15'